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Just because you got admitted to a college, don’t think that the acceptance can’t be revoked

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In the same way that you and I are notorious for slowing down our cars when we see a policeman parked on the side of the road, seniors are just as prone to putting their efforts on cruise control once they get their acceptance offers. In some ways this is just human nature. Seniors have often been running on fumes and now they can relax and recover. The admission offer has always been the carrot that has fueled a lot of the motivation to study hard and excel in school.

What many students and parents fail to realize is that there is language in the offer indicating that it is a conditional offer that is contingent on the student finishing the year in the same way they presented themselves when they were admitted.

I was touring a major university recently with one of their admissions officers leading the tour. The AO (admissions officer) told me how a student was shoplifting and they revoked his offer. Plagiarism is academic theft and I’ve seen students lose their offers for cheating on a high school test. Recently I was talking to a friend who also is a college counselor and he told me how he was heartbroken because one of his students had a stellar academic and character record but he went to a party, got inebriated, sexually assaulted a woman, and had his college admission revoked.

It isn’t only egregious lapses of judgment in character that lead to decisions being rescinded. The more selective the school is academically, the more it will scrutinize the final transcript to see if the student has finished well. From my experience, schools show a lot of grace in instances where grades tank. A straight-A student who becomes an A/B, or even “straight-B student” in the second semester is unlikely to lose their offer, but you don’t want to chance it.

A college may put you on academic probation before you even begin college and who wants to deal with that?  Who wants to have trust breached and feel as if they are being surveilled in a way that belies trust?

Another thing students need to know is that they can’t just get into a college and then drop a couple of their more rigorous courses. The cardinal rule here is that if you are admitted to a college and you are thinking about dropping an advanced class, or even going from five major classes to four, you first need to get the permission of the admission office in writing that this is acceptable to them. Once again, the more selective the school is, the more this sort of thing really matters.

The tendency for seniors to slack off is so widespread that there are three different names for this behavior. Some people call this “senioritis.” Others call it “senior slump,” and others refer to it as “senior slide.”

If you find your grades are tanking, reach out and talk to the admissions office. You are much more likely to get grace if there is a plausible explanation and if you communicate your resolve and your plan to turn things around. I would only do this if your slippage is at least one full letter grade, but other college coaches differ on this.

I was talking to a client recently and he said something profound. He said, “There are some things that are more important than money and one of them is my name, my reputation.” How you finish your senior year will impact your reputation. It will impact what your new college advisor may be told about you. Remember, you only get one shot at a first impression.

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Mark Stucker has 25 years of full-time experience in college and boarding school admissions, and in college counseling. He’s worked with private day, boarding, charter, and public-school students, as well as private clients.

He is extremely passionate about finding the right college for every student and
ensuring that the college selected is affordable for the family.

Career Highlights

  • Worked at the Phillips School doing college admission, 1991
  • Director of Annual Giving, Westtown School, 2001-2002
  • Adjunct College counselor for students at the Westtown School, 2003–2009
  • Associate Director of Admissions at Westtown School, 2002–2009
  • Chair of the admissions committee at Westtown School for five years, 2004–2009
  • Traveled nationally/ internationally to recruit students at fairs, through school visits, and receptions.
  • KIPP Metro Atlanta high school and college placement counselor, 2009–2023
  • Oversaw the college counseling program for four schools by serving as the Director of College Counseling for Alumni at KIPP Metro Atlanta. Placed about 70 kids in college per year in this role from 2019-2023
  • Founded college placement educational consulting company, School Match 4U, 2010
  • Served as a Go To College NYC board member
  • Worked with over 2000 students, in all 50 states through college and boarding school admissions, high school placement, college admissions, and college placement
  • Author of the book: “171 Answers”: To The Most-Asked College Admissions Questions
  • Founder, Co-Host and Producer of the Your College-Bound Kid podcast, the most listened to college admissions podcast according to Apple in the
    “Education for Kids” Category, 2018-Present
  • Traveled to visit over 350 colleges
  • Member of IECA, SACAC and NACAC
  • Graduate of the Harvard Summer Institute for College Admissions and the Stanford Counselor outreach certificate program

 

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Mark Stucker (mark@schoolmatch4u.com) has 25 years of full-time experience in college and boarding school admissions, and in college counseling. He’s worked with private day, boarding, charter, and public-school students, as well as private clients. He is extremely passionate about finding the right college for every student and ensuring that the college selected is affordable for the family.

Career Highlights

  • Worked at the Phillips School doing college admission, 1991
  • Director of Annual Giving, Westtown School, 2001-2002
  • Adjunct College counselor for students at the Westtown School, 2003 – 2009
  • Associate Director of Admissions at Westtown School, 2002 – 2009
  • Chair of the admissions committee at Westtown School for five years, 2004 –
    2009
  • Traveled nationally/ internationally to recruit students at fairs, through school
    visits, and receptions.
  • KIPP Metro Atlanta high school and college placement counselor, 2009 –
    2023
  • Oversaw the college counseling program for four schools by serving as the
    Director of College Counseling for Alumni at KIPP Metro Atlanta. Placed about
    70 kids in college per year in this role from 2019-2023
  • Founded college placement educational consulting company, School Match
    4U, 2010
  • Served as a Go To College NYC board member
  • Worked with over 2000 students, in all 50 states through college and boarding
    school admissions, high school placement, college admissions, and college
    placement
  • Author of the book: “171 Answers”: To The Most-Asked College Admissions Questions
  • Founder, Co-Host and Producer of the Your College-Bound Kid podcast, the most listened to college admissions podcast according to Apple in the “Education for Kids” Category, 2018-Present
  • Traveled to visit over 350 colleges
  • Member of IECA, SACAC and NACAC
  • Graduate of the Harvard Summer Institute for College Admissions and the Stanford Counselor outreach certificate program
  • Married for 35 years, Anitra and I are parents of two, our oldest is a Davidson College grad who owns a Spanish and Math tutoring company, and our youngest daughter is a graduate of the University of Georgia (BA) and North Carolina State (MA) and she is a Wellness coach at the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill at the Kenan-Flagler Business School
  • Hobbies include golf, gardening, reading, travel, watching basketball, football, track and golf, politics, eating various ethnic cuisines